Wednesday, November 30, 2011

New phones

  So I got a new phone for christmas from my parents early. I desided that I would give my old phone to Skyler. So I aked him and he seemed really excited about it. I transfered his number over and he paniced. He desided he didn't want my phone he wanted his back. His phone is more familiar to him. He wanted to save his old phone and keep it in his room. I told him I was going to put it up. He got upset and asked me one last time at bed for it.
 This morning he couldn't find the new phone so asked if he could just take the old one. Nice try it doesn't have service. I called the new one and he found it and left for the bus. His friend Arron is moving to north Dakota next month so he's having a hard time with it. He does not do good with change. This is a big change because they have been in the same class for the last three years. I wish Skyler could handle change better.

Monday, November 28, 2011

Let me explain

  I'm sitting in front of the computer and I am trying to deside what to write. I am a mother to Three Handsome, Busy, strongwilled boys and One beautful, happy, full of energy girl. They are my life and I have lost who I am becuase I am so busy with them.
  Taylor is 12 and in the 7th grade. He has ADHD. We have an Appt set up to see the Doctor in Febuary because we are having more and more problems with them every day. We will have a few good days and then something will set him off and he'll turn the house upside down in his wake of his meltdowns. I use to say that my Son Skyler sucked the energy from me but now with the both of them I have nothing left. Taylor has always been like this it is just getting worse and worse. The more I read about how to help Skyler I wonder if the same is wrong with Taylor. So we'll see in Febuary, thats the soonest they can get us in.
  Skyler is 10 and in the 5th grade. He has mild Aspergers and ADHD. He takes alot of my energy. He has to do everything his way. He is very routine which is nice in a way but if it gets messed up he melts down. He has very little friends if any, any more. He says he has friends but I don't thik he really understands. Its doesn't bother him either. He loves playing sports and thinks he is the best player. He would be content if we just let him play viedo games all day. He can't go to bed unless he has music on and has his stuffed bunny Mimzy that he got after watching the last mimzy.
  Eli is 4 and is in Preschool. His Speech is delayed so he goes to speech twice a week. He loves video games jsut as much as Skyler. Eli is very emotional and very loving. He played T-ball this past summer and soccer this fall. He has a great imagination and his very good with his little sister. After everything I have dealt with  with Skyler I worry about my younger ones.. Everything they say and do I think Skyler was just like that when he was younger. I pray that they are healthly and happy kids.
   Brielle is 2 and mommy's side kick. She is so full of life. Talks so much and Loves to have you read her a book. She looks up to her brothers but will shake her finger at them when they make her mad. She has come a long way from when she was born. Brielle desided to come into this world at 28 1/2 weeks. She weighed 3lbs 4oz. She was in the NICU for 52 days. You couldn't tell looking at her today. She is tall and skinny.
   I met  my husband Carson While working for lerhkinds coca cola 6 and a half years ago. He has adopted The two older boys. He works very hard for his family. I just wish it wasn't so hard for our family and that he didn't have to work so hard. I have had to go back to work just to get by. I work 29 hours a week. I am spred thin between work and the kids. Making sure the house is clean the bills are paid.  Food in the cupboards. I have no time for me let alone time with Carson. All I want for Christmas is a vacation with my hubby, No Kids. So we'll see.
  I have run out of time today but I will write more tommorow. With no internet at home I can only update at my inlaws between dropping Eli off and School and my afternoon shift.